While I’m not promoting #e-harmony neccesarily, I am however re-posting this because it has some very solid advice. I’ve had great male friends both straight and gay all my life and have amazing times with them. However, by no means do I really understand what they want romantically. When I read this article by JEANNIE ASSIMOS, DIRECTOR OF CONTENT I couldn’t help but nod my head from a very hopeful place. What’s even better are the comments from men about the list she’s created. Lots of good information for those of us who are cynical or just tired of misinformation.
The truth is that most men are a lot more emotionally deft and capable of intimacy than we’ve given them credit for. Most times, we let society’s lies create fear in us and this fear get in the way of us being ourselves around men and communicating our needs. We’re left feeling despaired about love and forced to assume men are enigmas.
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I discovered this post from Pinterest a couple of days ago and it has to be passed along. It’s by Jes, The Militant Baker and it’s both on point and very funny. As curvy ladies the very best thing we can do is insist on loving ourselves and finding inspiration from everywhere we can.
“There are people who prefer large ladies. And I mean all sizes of large. I thought that my best bet in life was to find a partner who accepted my fat. Pause. Give me a minute to hang my head and shake it at myself. Not only are there people who adore “thick” women, but a LOT of them who prefer it. This eventually ends up in an interesting territory which Marianne talks about here, but the point that I’m trying to make goes back to the “despite vs because of” argument. Here is what you need to know: you do NOT need to settle for a lover who is “okay” with your body. You have the right (and millions of opportunities) to find someone who is infatuated with your body. You deserve to be worshiped, woman!”
Click onto the link below and PLEASE, PLEASE do yourself a big favor and read the entire post. You will love it!
Who doesn’t love a good countdown especially when it’s something like this. Here are the 7 Most Unexpected Moves In Bed by the online magazine All Women. Give one a try or give them all a try. No one is judging you.
“It starts with that initial meeting, the texting, the conversation on the date. Everything is a build up to the main event.”